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Hi! Welcome to our blog — The Joubert (Joe-BEAR) Den. We are Cristian & Sonja, a newlywed couple navigating married life while adventuring along the way. Here we share bits and pieces of our every day lives, travel, fashion and our faith. Stay a while!

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Motherhood is scary. So incredibly beautiful, rewa Motherhood is scary. So incredibly beautiful, rewarding, and sacred. But also so scary. You’re responsible for keeping these tiny people alive and that can make anything anxiety inducing. You put it on top of everything else that can be nerve wracking for any human (mental health, physical health issues, finances, careers, relationships, this pandemic, the current state of our country’s society and its injustices, and general adulting) and my goodness I feel like I just can’t sometimes. Add in hormones...my goodness the hormones...and my body and mind currently feel soooo not myself. ⁣ ⁣ I asked in my stories recently if any of you had experience taking an antidepressant during your pregnancy, especially in the 3rd trimester. I asked because i need to make a decision ASAP. And the decision makes me feel like I need to throw up. I am not ok. I mean, I am.....but I’m not. I don’t know how else to describe it. I know this is such a personal thing to talk about but honestly, it’s not talked about enough. And from the looks of my DMs...you agree. As mamas we need to stand together to fight things like antenatal and postpartum depression and anxiety. So, I’m taking you on this journey with me. If you feel comfortable sharing in the comments, I’d love it if you shared your experiences with taking an antidepressant during pregnancy, especially Zoloft or cymbalta (my two choices). I will not be ashamed of this. And I will not let it take my motherhood away from me. ⁣ ⁣ ..........................................⁣ #honeywildpresets #preggo #babynumber2 #maternalmentalhealth #postpartumdepression #postpartum #ppd #ppdawareness #postpartumjourney #postpartumanxiety #thisispostpartum #mentalhealthrecovery #pregnancyjourney #pregnancylife #pregnancyzone #pregnancybeyond #realmotherhood #realmotherhoodseries #pregnantduringapandemic #pregnantwomencan #pregnantmama #pregnantnotpowerless #mamahood #mamahoodcommunity #empoweredmom #pregnantblogger #pregnancygoals #momtography #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodintheraw
Remember when I asked recently in my stories for y Remember when I asked recently in my stories for your nursing bra recommendations?! Well @kindredbravely was one of them and LET ME TELL YOU...they are coming through with the support + comfy-ness. I’m so excited to put this one (their Simply Sublime Nursing Bra) to use in 3 MONTHS (can you believe it?!) but will definitely be breaking it in in the meantime, since my usual bras aren’t cutting it anymore. ⁣ ⁣ I’m also a big fan of the company’s message: “Kindred” - sticking together as moms and doing it “Bravely.” It makes me think about what makes me brave right now...while being pregnant during a pandemic: this little guy right here. It’s crazy to me how this tiny human that I haven’t even met yet can give me so much courage. But the very clear truth is that I’m doing all of this for him! Putting my body through all of the uncomfy stretching (both physically and emotionally), my health at risk, and my career on the line. But mamas, you all understand. Our babies make us brave. They are the reason, and they are so worth it. Stay tuned for a blog post review all about @kindredbravely! And use SONJA20 on their website for 20% off your order 😘 #KindredBravelyPartner ⁣ ⁣ ............................................⁣ #preggobelly #mynameismama #breastfeedingtips #unitedmotherhood #pregnancyphoto ⁣#breastfeedingmoms #mamasofinstagram #momlifestyle #pregnantproblems #pregnancylife #pregnancyzone #messy_motherhood #breastfeedingjourney #breastfeedingmom #simplymamahood #mommymode #mymotherhood #storytellingmama #milspo #militarywife #pregnant_world #honeywildpresets #bumplove #embracethebump #pregnancydiary #realmotherhood #mommymoments #momslivinghappy #kindredbravely
The trees have stretch marks and so do I! 😉 25 The trees have stretch marks and so do I! 😉 25 weeks with little man 💙 (as of a few days ago)! And guess what...we *might* have a name. But of course we want to figure out a good back up one and we won’t officially decide until we meet him. 3 1/2 months to go, but who’s counting?! ⁣ ⁣ ........................⁣ #embraceyourmotherhood #oureverydaymoment #momprobs #momslivinghappy #ig_motherhood #tiredasamama #parenthood_unveiled #momitforward #motherhoodlife #preggo #pregnancyjourney #mamahoodinsquares #motherhoodintheraw #messy_motherhood #pregnancyproblems #lifeasmama #mynameismama #unitedmotherhood #pregnancyphotoshoot ⁣#honeywildpresets #mamasofinstagram #airforcewife #pregnantmum #honestlymothering #pregnancyphotography #simplymamahood #mymotherhood #motherhoodiscolorful #milso #pregnant_world
Happy 1 year of being in the military to my sweet Happy 1 year of being in the military to my sweet husband @crishjubie! He left for Air Force 🇺🇸✈️ basic training a year ago today! I can’t believe it’s already been a year. I know this might seem like a silly thing to “celebrate” to some, especially some of the more seasoned military spouses, but it’s a big milestone to me and we’ve been through a lot this past year! If we were together right now I probably would have made him a cake or something 😉. ⁣⁣ Even though Crish is not operational yet, (he’s about halfway through his first part of a long tech school) I often get other spouses, girlfriends, etc messaging me for advice, and I love giving it! I may still be learning myself but I have learned A TON just this past year. I’m working on a blog post about how to survive basic training as a spouse (it’s literally been in my drafts for months, oops), and would love to know your questions! I always say that for the spouse left behind, basic training is pretty much your own form of boot camp into military life 😂. So comment your questions! They don’t have to be about basic training...think moving, tech school, joining in general...whatever! ⬇️⬇️⬇️⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ .....................⁣⁣ #milsostrong #lovingmyhero #airforcewife #airforcelife #airforcelove #theheartcaptured #airforcefamily #militarylove #usairforce #milso #milsoblogger #militarywifelife #militaryspouse #militaryhomecoming #airforcewives #militarymama #militarywife #milsowifey #militaryfamilies #militaryfamily #militarycouple #milsolife #lacklandafb #militarywifelife🇺🇸 #militarytraining #militarymonday #milspouse #militarylifestyle #milfam #familygoals👪
I didn’t get those pretty after birth photos wit I didn’t get those pretty after birth photos with Jemma that I see around social media so much. But you know what? I think I love this photo (taken immediately after she was born on our bed) more than I could love those. It shows exactly how I was feeling — exhausted, overwhelmed, transcendent, blessed, etc. I didn’t share this on Sunday because I don’t always know HOW to share on Mother’s Day. My sisters, those who want to be mamas so badly or who have lost their babies, are always at the forefront of my mind, and it’s difficult for me to know how to honor them while also honoring myself and the miracle I took part in. I hope with all my heart that I never cause any of you pain by sharing my motherhood journey. You are all on my heart constantly. As I prepare to birth another soul earth side, I think back to this moment two years ago, and how I was feeling. I can’t wait to feel the rush of everything again, and hope and pray that you get to soon, too. ⁣💛 ⁣ ........................⁣ #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodslens #mamahood #joyfulmamas #uniteinmotherhood #motherhoodthroughinstagram #teammotherly #bestofmoms #homebirth #homebirthbaby #homebirthing #birthwithoutfear #thisispostpartum #birthmatters #infertilityawareness #infertilitysucks #infertilitywarrior #infertilitysupport #infantlossawareness #miscarriageawareness #mynameismama #mothersday2020 #bereavedmother #milso #airforcewife #nestandflourish #honeywildpresets #rawmotherhood #realmotherhood #birthbecomesher
Today is National Military Spouse 🇺🇸 Appreci Today is National Military Spouse 🇺🇸 Appreciation Day! While I am still SO NEW to this military life, I’m not exempt from experiencing firsthand the struggles, stress, and loneliness that comes with being a military spouse. But I’m also not exempt from the blessings, especially during this pandemic. We have security. We are taken care of. I know that going forward, my husband might not always be home with us, but I take comfort knowing that he’s doing his job, protecting our country, to take care of us. “Military Spouse” is a title I will proudly wear, even if it requires sacrifice. ⁣ ⁣ Also many thanks to my fellow military wives who have held my hand through this journey! We are coming up on @crishjubie’s one year mark and I truly couldn’t have done it without you! While this is a sisterhood I never thought I’d be a part of, I now wouldn’t have it any other way. 💙❤️💙⁣ ⁣ ....................⁣ #militaryspouseappreciationday #militarywifelife🇺🇸 #milsoonpoint #milsowifey #milsostrong #milsolove #livingthelife #militaryfamily #aimhigh #flyfightwin #militaryhomecoming #militaryspouse #airforcewife #airforcelife #airforcelove #airforcefamily #airforcespouse #usairforce #honeywildpresets #americandream #milso #lovingmyhero #milsolife #militarylove #militaryspouse #proudtobeanamerican #milsos #militarylifestyle #militarywife #milspouse
Something I’ve really struggled with during this Something I’ve really struggled with during this quarantine is feeling beautiful while pregnant. It’s already often hard to feel attractive while your skin is stretching, belly is getting rounder and bigger, and you’re gaining weight. Throw in some sciatica and swelling feet and it’s almost impossible. But add a pandemic in the mix? Yikes. I’m not sure about you other pregnant mamas, but I’ve only been living in sweats, pjs, or just my underwear 😂 ⁣ ⁣ So, today I put on jeans (I know, crazy) and a cute maternity top and had my hubby take some photos so I can remember...I am beautiful! Even...no especially...while pregnant. What are some things you do while pregnant to feel beautiful? It definitely doesn’t always have to be dressing up! ⁣ ⁣ Thanks to @pinkblushmaternity for gifting me with this Swiss Dot Ruffle Short Sleeve Maternity Top! It comes in more colors (this is the Olive!) and is the perfect maternity top for when you want to feel a little more put together. #prettyinpinkblush #pinkblushmaternity #pinkblushstyleambassador ⁣ ⁣ ........................................⁣ #pregnancystyle #pregnancyfashion #maternityfashion #maternityclothes #maternitystyle #maternitywear #honestlymothering #maternityphotos #maternityclothing #maternityoutfit #maternityblouse #secondtrimester #pregnant_world #momslivinghappy #mommystatus #mommymode #motherhoodrocks #momminainteasy #23weekspregnant #raisingtinyhumans #airforcewife #milso #honeywildpresets #nestandflourish #motherhoodthroughinstagram #pregnancydiary #pregnancywithstyle
Some sand + sun☀️is exactly what this anxious Some sand + sun☀️is exactly what this anxious mama needed. (Don’t worry, we practiced social distancing and didn’t stay long).⁣ ⁣ I closed my eyes, took some deep breaths, and listened to the waves. I instantly felt better. What have you been doing lately to BREATHE a little more? ⁣ ⁣ .....................⁣ #pregnancyphoto #pregnancylife #pregnancyblog #bumppic #pregnantandperfect #bumpie #bumplife #pregnancydiary #preggolife #preggobelly #mamatobe #2ndtrimester #mamahood #motherhoodlens #mymotherhood #realmotherhood #bunintheoven #itsaboy💙 #magicofmotherhood #mynameismama #inspirepregnancy #expectingmom #bumpstyle #montereybay #montereycalifornia #californiaholics #motherhoodjourney #honestlymothering #motherhoodisdarling #mamahoodinsquares
2 years ago today this little lady made me a mothe 2 years ago today this little lady made me a mother! It’s been the craziest (also hardest, let’s be real), best, most beautiful 2 years of my life. Swipe to see one of my favorite pictures of Jemma ever (taken in January)! Happy birthday beautiful girl. • • • • • • #motherhoodunited #motherhoodunhinged #motherhooduprising #mytinymoments #joyfulmamas #honeywildpresets #mom_hub #bloggermoms #bloggermommy #letthembelittleforever #ig_mama #igmamas #instamamas #igmommy #rawmotherhood #momhub #momhubcentral #mymagicalmoments #pocketsweetness #storytellingmama #motherhoodthroughinsta #mommiediaries #momdiaries #mamadiaries #mommasheart #simplymotherhood
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  • Motherhood is scary. So incredibly beautiful, rewarding, and sacred. But also so scary. You’re responsible for keeping these tiny people alive and that can make anything anxiety inducing. You put it on top of everything else that can be nerve wracking for any human (mental health, physical health issues, finances, careers, relationships, this pandemic, the current state of our country’s society and its injustices, and general adulting) and my goodness I feel like I just can’t sometimes. Add in hormones...my goodness the hormones...and my body and mind currently feel soooo not myself. ⁣ ⁣ I asked in my stories recently if any of you had experience taking an antidepressant during your pregnancy, especially in the 3rd trimester. I asked because i need to make a decision ASAP. And the decision makes me feel like I need to throw up. I am not ok. I mean, I am.....but I’m not. I don’t know how else to describe it. I know this is such a personal thing to talk about but honestly, it’s not talked about enough. And from the looks of my DMs...you agree. As mamas we need to stand together to fight things like antenatal and postpartum depression and anxiety. So, I’m taking you on this journey with me. If you feel comfortable sharing in the comments, I’d love it if you shared your experiences with taking an antidepressant during pregnancy, especially Zoloft or cymbalta (my two choices). I will not be ashamed of this. And I will not let it take my motherhood away from me. ⁣ ⁣ ..........................................⁣ #honeywildpresets #preggo #babynumber2 #maternalmentalhealth #postpartumdepression #postpartum #ppd #ppdawareness #postpartumjourney #postpartumanxiety #thisispostpartum #mentalhealthrecovery #pregnancyjourney #pregnancylife #pregnancyzone #pregnancybeyond #realmotherhood #realmotherhoodseries #pregnantduringapandemic #pregnantwomencan #pregnantmama #pregnantnotpowerless #mamahood #mamahoodcommunity #empoweredmom #pregnantblogger #pregnancygoals #momtography #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodintheraw
  • Remember when I asked recently in my stories for your nursing bra recommendations?! Well @kindredbravely was one of them and LET ME TELL YOU...they are coming through with the support + comfy-ness. I’m so excited to put this one (their Simply Sublime Nursing Bra) to use in 3 MONTHS (can you believe it?!) but will definitely be breaking it in in the meantime, since my usual bras aren’t cutting it anymore. ⁣ ⁣ I’m also a big fan of the company’s message: “Kindred” - sticking together as moms and doing it “Bravely.” It makes me think about what makes me brave right now...while being pregnant during a pandemic: this little guy right here. It’s crazy to me how this tiny human that I haven’t even met yet can give me so much courage. But the very clear truth is that I’m doing all of this for him! Putting my body through all of the uncomfy stretching (both physically and emotionally), my health at risk, and my career on the line. But mamas, you all understand. Our babies make us brave. They are the reason, and they are so worth it. Stay tuned for a blog post review all about @kindredbravely! And use SONJA20 on their website for 20% off your order 😘 #KindredBravelyPartner ⁣ ⁣ ............................................⁣ #preggobelly #mynameismama #breastfeedingtips #unitedmotherhood #pregnancyphoto ⁣#breastfeedingmoms #mamasofinstagram #momlifestyle #pregnantproblems #pregnancylife #pregnancyzone #messy_motherhood #breastfeedingjourney #breastfeedingmom #simplymamahood #mommymode #mymotherhood #storytellingmama #milspo #militarywife #pregnant_world #honeywildpresets #bumplove #embracethebump #pregnancydiary #realmotherhood #mommymoments #momslivinghappy #kindredbravely
  • The trees have stretch marks and so do I! 😉 25 weeks with little man 💙 (as of a few days ago)! And guess what...we *might* have a name. But of course we want to figure out a good back up one and we won’t officially decide until we meet him. 3 1/2 months to go, but who’s counting?! ⁣ ⁣ ........................⁣ #embraceyourmotherhood #oureverydaymoment #momprobs #momslivinghappy #ig_motherhood #tiredasamama #parenthood_unveiled #momitforward #motherhoodlife #preggo #pregnancyjourney #mamahoodinsquares #motherhoodintheraw #messy_motherhood #pregnancyproblems #lifeasmama #mynameismama #unitedmotherhood #pregnancyphotoshoot ⁣#honeywildpresets #mamasofinstagram #airforcewife #pregnantmum #honestlymothering #pregnancyphotography #simplymamahood #mymotherhood #motherhoodiscolorful #milso #pregnant_world
  • Happy 1 year of being in the military to my sweet husband @crishjubie! He left for Air Force 🇺🇸✈️ basic training a year ago today! I can’t believe it’s already been a year. I know this might seem like a silly thing to “celebrate” to some, especially some of the more seasoned military spouses, but it’s a big milestone to me and we’ve been through a lot this past year! If we were together right now I probably would have made him a cake or something 😉. ⁣⁣ Even though Crish is not operational yet, (he’s about halfway through his first part of a long tech school) I often get other spouses, girlfriends, etc messaging me for advice, and I love giving it! I may still be learning myself but I have learned A TON just this past year. I’m working on a blog post about how to survive basic training as a spouse (it’s literally been in my drafts for months, oops), and would love to know your questions! I always say that for the spouse left behind, basic training is pretty much your own form of boot camp into military life 😂. So comment your questions! They don’t have to be about basic training...think moving, tech school, joining in general...whatever! ⬇️⬇️⬇️⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ .....................⁣⁣ #milsostrong #lovingmyhero #airforcewife #airforcelife #airforcelove #theheartcaptured #airforcefamily #militarylove #usairforce #milso #milsoblogger #militarywifelife #militaryspouse #militaryhomecoming #airforcewives #militarymama #militarywife #milsowifey #militaryfamilies #militaryfamily #militarycouple #milsolife #lacklandafb #militarywifelife🇺🇸 #militarytraining #militarymonday #milspouse #militarylifestyle #milfam #familygoals👪
  • I didn’t get those pretty after birth photos with Jemma that I see around social media so much. But you know what? I think I love this photo (taken immediately after she was born on our bed) more than I could love those. It shows exactly how I was feeling — exhausted, overwhelmed, transcendent, blessed, etc. I didn’t share this on Sunday because I don’t always know HOW to share on Mother’s Day. My sisters, those who want to be mamas so badly or who have lost their babies, are always at the forefront of my mind, and it’s difficult for me to know how to honor them while also honoring myself and the miracle I took part in. I hope with all my heart that I never cause any of you pain by sharing my motherhood journey. You are all on my heart constantly. As I prepare to birth another soul earth side, I think back to this moment two years ago, and how I was feeling. I can’t wait to feel the rush of everything again, and hope and pray that you get to soon, too. ⁣💛 ⁣ ........................⁣ #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodslens #mamahood #joyfulmamas #uniteinmotherhood #motherhoodthroughinstagram #teammotherly #bestofmoms #homebirth #homebirthbaby #homebirthing #birthwithoutfear #thisispostpartum #birthmatters #infertilityawareness #infertilitysucks #infertilitywarrior #infertilitysupport #infantlossawareness #miscarriageawareness #mynameismama #mothersday2020 #bereavedmother #milso #airforcewife #nestandflourish #honeywildpresets #rawmotherhood #realmotherhood #birthbecomesher
  • Today is National Military Spouse 🇺🇸 Appreciation Day! While I am still SO NEW to this military life, I’m not exempt from experiencing firsthand the struggles, stress, and loneliness that comes with being a military spouse. But I’m also not exempt from the blessings, especially during this pandemic. We have security. We are taken care of. I know that going forward, my husband might not always be home with us, but I take comfort knowing that he’s doing his job, protecting our country, to take care of us. “Military Spouse” is a title I will proudly wear, even if it requires sacrifice. ⁣ ⁣ Also many thanks to my fellow military wives who have held my hand through this journey! We are coming up on @crishjubie’s one year mark and I truly couldn’t have done it without you! While this is a sisterhood I never thought I’d be a part of, I now wouldn’t have it any other way. 💙❤️💙⁣ ⁣ ....................⁣ #militaryspouseappreciationday #militarywifelife🇺🇸 #milsoonpoint #milsowifey #milsostrong #milsolove #livingthelife #militaryfamily #aimhigh #flyfightwin #militaryhomecoming #militaryspouse #airforcewife #airforcelife #airforcelove #airforcefamily #airforcespouse #usairforce #honeywildpresets #americandream #milso #lovingmyhero #milsolife #militarylove #militaryspouse #proudtobeanamerican #milsos #militarylifestyle #militarywife #milspouse

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